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Must suck to have Instagram and be famous!

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So out of what seems like unbearable boredom, I've started going on more social media sites. I just opened an Instagram account and started using my twitter account that I pretty much haven't used since I opened it in '08. I start roaming around adding my favorite celebrities while trying to learn how to work the damn things and notice something annoying! When you are famous and really good looking, people just don't care what you have to say. Since I haven't been following to many people, there's one celeb in particular I'm referencing for these thoughts but of course I'm not gonna tell you who it is! I will say that he is good looking enough that if you saw him in person, I'm sure your IQs might drop about 50 points. But at the end of the day, he and every other celebrity are just people. Take Justin Beiber for example, I'm sure before he became famous girls weren't chasing him between classes and pouncing on him in the lunch room. 

I want to do an experiment where we take a random, average looking guy, start a Twitter for him, take a few spiffy pictures of him and show them to a bunch of girls. We'll tell them that he’s an up and coming actor or singer doesn’t matter. I bet within 5 days, he would be getting declarations of love and scarier things in the hundreds…fine maybe not that soon but could happen.

Tell me if this would bother you; you post a picture of.....a burger you are about to eat at a restaurant, just saying you're out with friends and then the next 30 replies  from fans are from girls talking about how much they love you. Sounds nice right? Reply after reply of fans proclaiming their undying love, oh the good life. But COME ON! It has to get old doesn't it?

Of course if you're famous, you will expect that reaction especially if you are an attractive, young male. It’s interesting how fan girls seem to throw themselves at celebrities. Why do they think the celeb. guy will sweep them off their feet if their screaming like a crazy person and crying about how perfect they will be together? Try that with a person at school or work, can you say "... not aloud with in 500ft of...." shouldn't work out to well. 

What would bother me most is having some off time to chill with the family dog and you decide to share this rare sweet moment by snapping a picture of your fluffy monster and post it to Instagram only to get a reply like this, "Why do you have a girlfriend? I love you so much! Why don't you reply to me?” Hmmm charming, you can't say no to that.

As someone famous, you must lose innocence about yourself. To always have tons of insane people who don't know you but say they are in love with you. It’s enough to make anyone cynical. I guess you just learn to ignore the crazies and only reply to the people you know or who seem nice. I mean you can't tell them to go suck an egg but they can't fault you if you are “too busy” to reply.

What Sex means to some

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Let's start this by saying at one time or another I wanted to be a Sexologist. Human sexual behavior has always been incredibly fascinating to me in a nosy-neighbor- sort-of-way. I've always had a narrow view on what sex meant in a relationship. I felt that to have sex with someone you should deeply care about them. Which I still feel but I am ashamed to say I was overly judgmental of people who had...........alternative views on sex till I took a Family and Marriage class in college. My Professor helped me better understand that some couples have an understanding in their relationship that works for them which doesn't mean they are less in love than a socially excepted couple would be. I am completely fascinated by how these decisions and especially learning how these conversations come about. Oh to be a fly on that wall! 

I think I'm starting to understand the logic of some of the alternative sexual relationships out there, for example Swingers. Correct me if I'm wrong but I think it might be that some of these couples are so in love that nothing can hurt their relationship. Sounds to simple right?! They must be crazy, sick, perverted! But maybe not. Sure a lot of us can agree that it is an unhygienic activity but maybe the thought behind it is pure? Could you imagine being that in love, that trusting to just know without a doubt that even knowing that your partner is off with someone else it doesn't mean anything, truly doesn't mean anything? If you can wrap your head around it, it’s sweet in a way....if you can. If not then it’s crazy, sick and perverted. 

Try to forget about the MASSIVE amounts of sex swingers have with with other swingers and imagine having a bond with someone so purely bound by trust and love that you know that nothing can break you apart. I think it’s possible for anyone whatever your romantic relationship grouping arrangement is. 

Being in my 20's, a lot of my friends aren't in a healthy relationship which saddens me a lot because I think that love is the ultimate form of happiness and I want everyone to fall in love. Yet time and time again there's a bad break up here a one night stands there. People rush into relationships without getting to know the person and then staying in those toxic relationships for weeks, months and sadly years. Why don't people talk to each other? Just speaking and being honest can save a dying relationship or start a healthy one. Starting off relationships on a lies and basing your next partner off looks first and personality sometimes never is why I feel people can't find true, lasting, sustainable love.

Some people are ok with casual sex without the emotion ties that come with a relationship, I respect that as a personal choice but sex is the closest you can physically get to someone else. You are at your most vulnerable and trusting even if you don't think so. You're trusting another person with your body. Trusting them not to harm you for those moments you spend together. Don't take it for granted.

Blogging cherry popped

My names Keshia and I live in hell-on earth Arizona tho at the moment my hands are nearly numb from the cold...hard to believe that winter does come to hell. I've been thinking bout starting a blog for a while now, I have to many random thoughts that aren't happy being stuck in my head anymore.